"my son's mother and i went to the courts and she signed forms under oath stating that she is not able to take of my son nor my youngest daughter, she gave my oldest daughter to her adopted mother 3yrs ago because of the same statement she made about my youngest two children she stated she couldn't take care of her at that time.she still remains in the care of her adopted mother, she stated to the worker that she wanted me to have custody of my son and my youngest daughter she wanted her to live with the maternal grandmother in which she already does without the knowledge of the courts.The week following her signing the forms for me to obtain custody she changed her mind about me to have my son but she want me to sign the forms for the maternal grandmother to have custody of my youngest daughter, which i want both my children, i don't want them split up. I'm still having a hard time dealing with my oldest daughter being gone to another state. PLEASE HELP ME!! What can a desperate father do in a situation like this my son still continue to suffer"