"My divorce came to me as a complete surprise. That's what happens when you haven't been home in 18 years". LEE TREVINO
Well, OK, maybe he can have a joke about his own divorce and I do see the funny side, but there are many people who find the fact that they are about to be divorced, a complete shock. They "didn't see it coming". That rather goes against the common idea that people argue more and more and then decide to get a divorce. It often isn't like that.
Was your divorce a great surprise or did you see it coming?