Family Matters

Your monthly family law digest from Woolley & Co, Solicitors

  
  
 

April 2018

Child contact with non-resident parent - thinking practically

Trying to reach an agreement about child contact with non-resident parents, especially when the situation may feel raw, can be difficult. However, the main focus has to be what is in the best interests of the child, rather than what you ideally want or what you feel you should be ‘entitled’ to.

In Brief

What are the consequences of a delayed divorce?

Making the decision to split from a spouse can be one of the hardest things that many people will do. Once they have made the decision and set the wheels in motions there is a seemingly endless list of &ldquo...
... more

2018 – The Year of the Prenup?

It’s 2018. Maybe this is the year to be honest about marriage and take the stigma out of marriage breakdown. Maybe, 2018 should be the year of the prenup?Discussions on prenuptial agreements are not new. After all, prenups have...
... more

Is it possible to divorce someone more than once?

How many times can you be divorced from the same person? As many times as you marry them is the honest answer. Just ask Liz Taylor and Richard Burton.But if you only marry a person once, you can only...
... more

Arbitration in family law – a private judge to settle disputes about your children

I keep hearing that our court system is broken or on the verge of collapse. I have to say I am inclined to agree.Last year I went to court with a client about the arrangements for his children. ...
... more

Technological change long overdue in family law cases

As a family law solicitor, it never ceases to amaze me how wasteful the court system is, in more ways than one. Anyone who has attended a hearing at court as part of their family proceedings, will have an idea...
... more

When thinking about appropriate child contact arrangements, consider your own working hours and availability to enjoy good quality contact.  It is not advisable to seek overnight contact with a young child if it involves collecting a child, simply to put them to bed and then wake them up the next morning to return them to school or the other parent’s care.  Children need stability and routine and to disrupt that routine can be destabilising for that child’s welfare.

When thinking about holiday contact, consider your own holiday availability.  Children of school age usually have around 13 weeks holiday a year. Don’t ask for half of the school holiday time unless you are able to be home with them.  The purpose of the contact is for your child to spend quality time with you and being present during that time will maximise the benefits to your child of that contact.

If your contact arrangement is set out in the terms of a court order (a child arrangements order), remember that if you do not comply with the terms of the order you will be in breach.  You may be faced with further legal action and costs if the other parent seeks to enforce the terms of the order or to vary it as it is not being complied with.

If both parents approach shared parenting from a practical perspective, it’s far more likely that an amicable agreement can be reached.

In my experience as a family law solicitor, many applications for enforcement or variation of court orders concerning child contact could have been avoided if the arrangement had been considered more carefully in the first instance and the practical arrangements and availability of each parent to care for their child at any given time had been considered. If the focus is switched to the child’s welfare, rather than the wishes and feelings of the parents at a time when emotions have been running high, there’s normally a better result all round.


Catherine Edmondson
Family Law Solicitor, Stoke on Trent

www.family-lawfirm.co.uk

 

 
 
 
 
Woolley & Co, Solicitors
Warwick Enterprise Park,
Wellesbourne,
Warwick CV35 9EF
info@family-lawfirm.co.uk
Call 0800 321 3832
Mobile 0330 330 3832
Outside UK +44 (0)1789 330310     
 
   
 

© Woolley & Co, Solicitors. All rights reserved. No unauthorised copying, extraction or other use is allowed except with our prior written permission. Woolley & Co Solicitors is the trading name of Woolley & Co Limited, company number 07387222. Woolley & Co, Solicitors is a member of the Law Society and authorised and regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. A list of directors is available from our registered office which is Warwick Enterprise Park, Wellesbourne, Warwick, CV35 9EF. VAT Reg. No. 687 644 675.

Click here to unsubscribe.